"Do men like women of power?" A Published UNO Magazine Article Email

 "Be the kind of woman that when your feet hit the floor each morning, the DEVIL says, 'Oh crap. She's up.'"



"Know what? Bitches get stuff done."

- Tina Fey










Let me be very honest about this. I guess you deserve some blatant frankness.

Do we like women of power? Actually it depends. I can’t really say all men like the idea that a woman of their choice is of higher status and of higher value than them. Some men think that if their female partners are richer, more popular, more valuable, and hold a type of power in a company, agency, or in a community, they lose their manhood. Their pride is on the line. I think these men should consult a psychiatrist. They are as weak as a racing horse on a coma.

There are some men who prefer less powerful women. They are the ones…

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The Glory of Having “Fuck Buddies” Email

The Glory of Having “Fuck Buddies”




Alvin: How long have you two been together?
Emma: Oh, we're not.
Adam: We're sex friends.
Emma: Yeah. Yes, we are.
Adam: We're friends with benefits. Fuck buddies.
- No Strings Attached








Fuck Buddies (FBs for short) are friends with whom one has a sexual relationship with, minus the exclusivity and seriousness of a traditional romantic relationship. For this reason, I would say the “FB zone” is the exact opposite of the dreaded “friend zone”. Men typically enjoy this type of relationship. In fact, FB’s are such fun friends that we might as well call them “Fun Buddies”.

However, as with all relationships, it’s not all “fun, fun, fun” *sigh*. In fact, managing the FB relationship may sometimes require the discipline of a monk in a shaolin monastery, or a priest maintaining celibacy... as you will learn in a while.

That’s because FB set-ups can turn into serious relationships once mistakes are made in managing…

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Don't Fail This Test Email

Don't Fail This Test




 "F*ck you, I won't do what you tell me!"

Killing In The Name, Rage Against the Machine









On a normal day, I would start an article by posting a picture and quote decent enough for our readers. This is not that day. Here's a an article written by my good friend and current instructor of X Arts, Cleo. Just a brief background.

I met Cleo on a warm Monday night. We decided to sarge in Timog together with the crew. His first approach? Touched a woman's breast. Funny, that woman just told us that Cleo did that. She wasn't angry but not too enthusiastic about it, either. Maybe she wasn't that satisfied. The answer will forever be unknown. I thought to myself, this guy is a little bit stupid, a little bit drunk, a little bit weird, and a little bit direct. That's when I knew I liked Cleo a little…

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Of Pride and the Willingness To Walk Away Email

Of Pride and the Willingness To Walk Away






  No one can make you feel inferior without your consent. - Eleanor Roosevelt



This is in connection with the post about Ms. Universe Janine Tugonon and Jaypee Santos.


So what if you found out your girl cheated on you? It’s the worst feeling. No one wants to be betrayed. No one likes the idea. So what do you do?


Let’s answer that question with some wisdom.


Let me stress the concept of being an Alpha Male or Alpha Female. There are but hundreds of qualities when we talk about Alpha behaviors. Topics range from body language, uncaring attitude, control of emotions, leader of groups, and display of high value, so on and so forth. But what do all these have in common? One word – Confidence. But confidence on what?


The confidence and willingness to walk away.


If you really are sure about yourself…

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Don't Be The Man Who Can't Be Moved Email

Don't Be The Man Who Can't Be Moved
“Man may have discovered fire, but women discovered how to play with it.” 
― Candace BushnellSex and the City


Janine Tugonon. Jaypee Santos. The Script. KrisTV...


It’s all over the news. Ms. Universe First Runner Up Janine Tugonon broke up with Jaypee Santos. One of the many factors is rumored to be in connection with the vocalist of the band, The Script, Danny O’Donoghue.


You’re a moralist? Get the hell out of here because this is going to be raw and brutal. I’m a straightforward guy so let me be direct. There are two things I want to discuss here among any other things.


I. Average Frustrated Chump


Oh yes. The AFC. He belongs to the largest percentage of modern men who fails to attract women. But does Jaypee Santos belong in this category by that definition alone? Let’s complete the definition of an AFC.



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Seduction and Selling Part I Email

Seduction and Selling Part I

“It’s not Lying, it’s Flirting”
– Neil Strauss a.k.a. Style, author of the best-selling book “The Game” and internationally acclaimed Pick Up Artist

A seducer is a salesman. However, instead of selling a product or a service, what the seducer sells, is himself, or more accurately, his ability to be a sexual partner.

You see, every guy is already subconsciously considered by a woman to be a sexual partner. The guy, in seducing the girl, needs to convince the girl why she needs to “buy” him.

Knowing the Product – You and Your Features

However, before you sell yourself, you yourself have to know what you are, or rather, who you are, what you are capable of offering, what company you offer her, what features women will want about you, and what benefits they stand to receive once they “buy” you.

It pays to know the product. No salesman…

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Practicing Humility Email

Practicing Humility

"Listen up, maggots. You are not special. You are not a beautiful or unique snowflake. You're the same decaying organic matter as everything else"
Tyler Durden from the movie Fight Club

"Education's purpose is to replace an empty mind with an open mind" -Malcolm Forbes, US Art Collector, Author and Publisher, from his interview in Forbes Magazine

Humility? Does it Help?

This is X Arts, a premier brotherhood for seduction... but why the heck are we talking about Humility?

Believe it or not, this is a relevant topic. Humility helps because:

  • You're open to growth and continuous self-improvement whenever you're humble. Keeping yourself on the ground gives you much larger room to improve your skills, development and learnings continually. On the other hand, ego is the enemy of growth.
  • You avoid becoming a "Know-it-all". First of all, it is common knowledge that a "Know-it-all" is unattractive and anti-seductive. That's one reason…

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Attitude of Seduction: Take Action and Leave Your Mark - Visiting my Grandmother's Grave Email

Attitude of Seduction: Take Action and Leave Your Mark - Visiting my Grandmother's Grave

"It is impossible to have perfect and complete information at any given time to make a decision."
- Herbert Simon (Respected American Political Scientist, Ecobnomicst, Scientist, Sociologist, and Psychologist)

"Act Before You're Ready" - Robert Greene, from the DeathGround Strategy in his best-selling book 33 Strategies of War

"Knowledge is Power Only When Applied" - Wise Proverb

The other day, I went to the cemetery to visit my grandmother's grave. It's been a long time since she passed away, 9 years to be exact. She was my grandmother by blood from my father's side. She is pure Chinese.

It's actually odd that I missed her and went to where she lay in order to reminisce the times we've been together. Why is it odd you might ask? That's because when she was still living, I hated her. The last thing I wanted to be was near her, and I wanted to get…

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Attitude of Seduction: The Dangers of Thinking Too Much - Thinking of What to Say Will Usually Interfere with What You Really Have to Say Email

Attitude of Seduction: The Dangers of Thinking Too Much - Thinking of What to Say Will Usually Interfere with What You Really Have to Say

"There can be as much value in the blink of an eye as in months of rational analysis."
- Malcolm Gladwell, from his best-selling book Blink: the Power of Thinking without Thinking

"Put Yourself on Deathground Mode - Act Before You're Ready." - Robert Greene, from his best-selling book The 33 Strategies of War

"It's better to Aim, Fire, Ready than to Ready, Aim, Fire!" - David DeAngelo, owner of the Million Dollar Empire Double Your Dating

Many men had experienced this before - they see a gorgeous woman they'd like to meet, but then they don't have what it takes to approach that woman, even if the opportunity is perfect; or even if they do have the guts to approach the woman, they spend a lot of time thinking about what to say to her that it paralyzes them to the point of inaction, and then the opportunity…

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The Most Un-Attractive Trait One can Have Email

The Most Un-Attractive Trait One can Have

"Be curious, not judgmental" - Walt Whitman

"Judge not, that ye be not judged" - Matthew 7:1, King James International Version

"Therefore let us stop passing judgment on one another. Instead, make up your mind not to put any stumbling block or obstacle in your brother's way." - Romans 14:13

If there's one trait that makes anyone uber-unattractive, that one trait in our personality that we should eliminate as if they're cancer cells, that one trait that should never be in our system in the first place, that one trait which, if you eliminate, would enhance your social life exponentially.... what do you think it would be?

  • Not having a sense of humor?
  • Being insensitive?
  • Not being assertive?
  • Being disrespectful?
  • Being "weird"?

The answer is not in the foregoing choices... Sure it can be unattractive, but not too much, and this one trait I'm talking about, is much more…

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