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"For women the best aphrodisiacs are words. The G-spot is in the ears. He who looks for it below there is wasting his time." ~ Isabel Allende




This is one of the many re-uploads published in the Facebook FTA Page that failed to make it here in our website during its glorious reconstruction. Without further ado.


Let me talk to the ladies for a moment here. Why do men search for sex? Because we love to put our stick in anything that moves . I'm kidding. Or am I?

We want to have sex cos we think you're hot. That's it! Trust me, for most guys roaming the club who dream to have a one-night stand, that's their reason. You didn't think he walks around the club to find a wife, did you? 

Now. Why do women have sex?

1. Cos she thinks you, the guy, are worthy
2. Adventure
3. She loves you or she thinks she loves you
4. A guy turned her on
5. A guy turned her off
6. You're a celebrity
7. You look like a celebrity
8. You belong to the same social circle of a celebrity
9. She pities you (way to go Friendzone!)
10. You have a British accent
11. Fifty Shades of Grey
12. Three bottles of Tequila

I can enumerate dozens more, but here's the common thing about all of these reasons: EMOTIONS.

You stimulate a woman's emotions and you have a bigger percentage of bringing her home. 

Before you go ape shit on me for saying women are secondary people (I never or will I ever say that) and more emotional than logical, here's a quick explanation. 

I'm not objectifying women. I'm simply saying this is the reality. Humans had been existing for 5 million years (remember Lucy?). This emotional circuitry had been wired in their system through evolution, through countless times for survival. Finding a mate was more of survival instincts. Of course, there was no copy of Fifty Shades of Grey back then but cavemen got clubs! Close enough!

So how do you trigger these emotions?

Everyone is attracted to power, status, unpredictability, mystery, looks, and manliness. Yes, everyone, including straight guys.

Ever wondered why women are so attracted to bad boy looking gentlemen (i.e. Joseph Estrada, Johnny Depp, Brad Pitt)? Why despite a womanizing reputation, girls flock those guys' way? 

Rockstars portray this aura. That's why they have more sex than you have. Ask John Mayer and his notorious escapades.

Are you funny like the great Dolphy or just badboy but cheesy like Robin Padilla who married Mariel Rodriguez 4 months (?) after they met?

Am I saying you have to be a douchebag? No. I'm saying, cultivate your personality to gain power, status, and manliness. Harness yourself first before women see your value. It's all about VALUE. How much value do you have? 

Don't give me those lines like, "I love myself, and I am worthy enough. Women should accept me for who I am." Don't! Just don't. That's the same reason why you don't have a girlfriend. Cos you have been, well, you.

Be a better you. I'd choose 2.0 version than 1.0. I'd buy Windows 7 or 8 or Mac than Windows 93.

Women like men who can intrigue them. Women want to be swept away and swept off of their feet by powerful men, by men who are funny, by men who look good than just plain good-looking, and by men who have status.

Don't argue with evolution, at least not just yet.

To end this, let me quote Billy Crystal:

"Women need a reason to have sex. Men just need a place."

SINfully yours,



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