AttraXion Arts

Saturday, June 13, 2009

THE SINGLE FILES
By Ana Santos

The relationship columnist meets the Pick-up Artist 

“X” is twenty something pick up artist, who has made it his mission to teach other men how to approach and meet women he actually wants to meet; as opposed to those he just meets by chance. With tools and techniques that he has developed over the years of what he calls “fieldwork,” X has and other veteran pick-up-artists like him established X Arts, a series of boot camps for men who want to learn the fine art of seduction.

For this week’s column, X takes out his archives of field reports and shares some of his teachings.

X Arts is short for “Attraxion Arts”, which is a wordplay on “The Art of Attraction”

We are a group of PUA’s (short for Pick Up Artists), who specialize in teaching men how to be more confident and effectively attract and seduce the opposite sex.

The Philippine PUA Society really started out back in early 2006 with me, as one of the pioneers. Back then, we called ourselves the “Manila Lair.”

Having built quite a reputation in the “Lair” for successfully applying seduction principles, I grew a following. Other Lair members started consulting me, and I obliged myself to teach them. Others then started paying for the lessons and boot camps. Soon, many urged me to organize and formally set up “PUA boot camps.”

So in January 2008, I founded the “Attraxion Arts School”, or “X Arts”. We held our very first formal and official seminar in a small function room in Ateneo De Manila University in Quezon City, and since then, we’ve held numerous 1-on-1 in-field boot camps and formal seminars.

I thought of establishing X Arts because I wanted to teach guys and give them the tools and resources necessary for them to succeed in their love life.

I want them to get “what they want”, not just “want what they get.” There’s a difference . . . you see, a PUA should even deserve more credit than the average person who just “accidentally stumbles into his wife.” It is the PUA who relentlessly approaches a lot of people, socializes and actively makes an effort to find the right woman for him.

I want men to have more options in his lovelife so that he would not have to settle for someone less than what he deserves.

I also want men to know how to treat women. We teach them to have values and treat women as they would treat their mother . . . with respect. One reason why there are a lot of sexual crimes like rape, acts of lasciviousness, or sexual harassment committed, is because men resort to force and aggression in channeling their bottled up sexual energy to get what they want. By running X Arts, I believe we make society a better and more peaceful place to live due to the decrease in sexual crimes.

I also want them to be successful not only in their love lives, but also life, in general. One of the traits we teach in order to become more attractive is being able to communicate effectively. This is a skill that is not only applicable in courtship or the art of attraction, but also in all aspects of life like in your career and social life when communication with your circle of friends.

I’ve witnessed several persons transform and became a better person because of the Pick Up Arts. I, myself, was transformed because of this. Before, even though I fared well in the looks department, I never succeeded with the opposite sex simply because I didn’t know the art of attraction. Pick Up Arts not only helped me in succeeding with the opposite sex, it also helped improve my life overall.

My clientele generally consists of two groups: 1.) those who are already skilled in the art of attraction and thus know how to attract a woman, but just wants to elevate his skills to a higher level; and 2.) those who don’t know anything or have little knowledge about attracting women properly.

The latter group usually relies on luck or “chance” in meeting, attracting, or getting the girl . . . some of them may become successful at times, but it’s not consistent.

I’d say that one major obstacle for them in getting the girl is getting them to “unlearn” all the negative mindset and habits in their attitude which are not attractive to women. We call these negative mindset and habits “limiting beliefs” because they are just beliefs, not the truth or fact, that limit their ability to achieve or maximize their potential as an attractive person.

In our boot camps, we remove the negative mindset that social programming and conditioning has input into their minds. We replace these limiting beliefs with positive, unlimiting beliefs.

When you think about it, it’s all fairly simple.

Just as animals have their own mating rituals, peacocks have their colorful appearance, fish have their mating dances and birds have their songs, we humans have our own courtship ritual. The other term or “slang” for this ritual is “The Game,” so technically, everyone out to find a mate is a “Player”

Actually, women play games all the time, but it’s not intentional nor malicious, nor devious— they’re just playing their part in that courtship ritual.

We, men need to play the game too, and it does not necessarily involve trickery, manipulation, nor breaking a woman’s heart. It just means playing our role in the courtship ritual with our techniques and knowledge of the rules.

As in any social situation, the bottom line is, if one is fair in his dealings with people, he will be beyond reproach . . . and hopefully, also successful in getting his girl.

Log on to www.attraxionarts.com and register to receive free dating tips and advice. Call 0922-824-7476 or the X Arts official hotline (02) 707-8475 for more information. 
 
* Original Article located at: http://www.manilatimes.net/national/2009/june/13/yehey/life/20090613lif5.html

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