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"No matter how much technology you have at your command and friends in your social networking site, there is no substitute for the gentle touch of another live human, for the feel of their breath on your neck, for soft whisper from their lips into your ear." - Bill Allin, stalwart pilgrim of life, http://billallin.com

Over the past 2 weeks, we have been getting questions about this thing called "Kino". For those not in the know, kino refers to "touch" in the seduction community.

The most commonly asked questions about kino that we get are:

• When is it proper to kino?
• When should we start doing kino?
• Should we wait for IOI's first before doing kino?

And so on and so forth. My 1 single answer to all these questions about kino is, just go do kino naturally, and frequently. The reason is that, kino should not be viewed as something special. It's normal. It should be normal for men and women (and all people alike) to be touching each other.

Personally, I touch right at the outset. Now, if I see that they're not too comfortable with me touching them yet, then I'd lessen the frequency of how often I touch. The point is, I just touch. It establishes rapport and closeness. It emphasizes something. It builds more connections faster between the 2 of you, than if I didn't touch.

Touching is normal. People are born to touch. It's just a normal part of daily personal human interaction. We were made that way. It feels so good to be touched by other people. It also feels good to touch people. Nothing can substitute for the live touch of a human being.

Have you ever tried to have a massage? Feels good, doesn't it? That just shows that being touched the right way, is normal, and feels superbly good. Try touching yourself, and see if you can tickle yourself, much less give yourself a very pampering massage. It's not really that pleasurable.

Of course, touching should have a context. You can't just touch people and all other strangers without any reason at all, and you should be touching in the right areas, at the right time.

There are 3 zones of kino here in X Arts, which could serve as a guide to kino escalation. They are enumerated according to the degree of closeness and rapport:

1. The Friends' Zone
2. The Erogenous Zone
3. The Sexual Zone

The Sexual Zone

The Sexual Zone consists of the penis, the scrotum, the vagina, the breasts, and sometimes, the butt (maybe considered a semi-sexual, semi-erogenous zone, depending on the person being touched).

Only lovers, are allowed in this zone, unless you're a hoe or a bitch.

The Erogenous Zone

The Erogenous Zone consists of those areas of the human body, aside from the Sexual Zone, which are sensitive... sensitive enough that if it gets touched it in a certain way, you will get tickled. This zone may include the inner thigh, the back of the ears, the neck, the face, the butt, the armpit, the waist, the small of the back, that inner biceps, the abdomen.

Only close friends are allowed in this zone. A caveat - guys aren't usually allowed in this zone if the one being touched is also a guy, it's just too damn gay.

The Friends' Zone

The Friends' Zone consists of those areas that do not fall under both the Sexual Zone and the Erogenous Zone. 

General Principles

The rule is, the closer to the sexual zone the area is (whether it is under the erogenous zone or under the friends zone), the closer and higher the rapport that is needed to get to that area. Another principle worth keeping in mind is, access the higher zones automatically means access to lower zones. 

Also, the way you touch is also indicative of the degree of your closeness, so that even if you're touching the areas falling under the friends' zone, if you're not just merely touching it but "caressing" it, then that would require a higher degree of closeness and rapport. Another example is if you're just not just touching the hands, but holding it (much more if your fingers interlock with each other), it can mean much more, even though the hand falls under the friends' zone. 

And, to avoid sending "creepy vibes", don't touch her, expecting her to touch you back or do something in return. And don't wait for her approval as well. Touch... just because you like touching. Touch her in the proper way, at the proper time, without expecting nothing in return, will make it really natural - the way it should always be.

Strategic Touching

For better logistical kino position, you might also read Skillset of Seduction: Positioning Yourself for Better Kino and Touching. That's because, knowing how to touch doesn't matter if you can't put yourself in a position to be able to touch her naturally.

So, there you go. That's "touching" for you. Now, go out there and touch them all!

Just a joke women, got it from a text message. Haha.

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