AttraXion Arts

"When you are through changing, you are through." - Bruce Barton

"He who rejects change is the architect of decay.  The only human institution which rejects progress is the cemetery." - Harold Wilson

The 2011 Philippine Seduction Summit is drawing near. The purpose of the convention is to present men and women with the right attitude in dealing with the opposite sex and with life, in general. Of course, another purpose is for the guys to get together, sarge a bar, and declare Club d' etat (another name for club takeover)! Now ain't that a scene?!

But let's stick to the main objective of the Summit, the main objective of X Arts, and the main objective of this community.

Change

Change. Isn't it a cliche? You will have to agree with me that the word have become so common that you it didn't take you more than a second (or 100th, at that) to look...

"It is impossible to have perfect and complete information at any given time to make a decision." - Herbert Simon (Respected American Political Scientist, Ecobnomicst, Scientist, Sociologist, and Psychologist)

"Act Before You're Ready" - Robert Greene, from the DeathGround Strategy in his best-selling book 33 Strategies of War

"Knowledge is Power Only When Applied" - Wise Proverb

The other day, I went to the cemetery to visit my grandmother's grave. It's been a long time since she passed away, 9 years to be exact. She was my grandmother by blood from my father's side. She is pure Chinese.

It's actually odd that I missed her and went to where she lay in order to reminisce the times we've been together. Why is it odd you might ask? That's because when she was still living, I hated her. The last thing I wanted to be was...

"There can be as much value in the blink of an eye as in months of rational analysis." - Malcolm Gladwell, from his best-selling book Blink: the Power of Thinking without Thinking

"Put Yourself on Deathground Mode - Act Before You're Ready." - Robert Greene, from his best-selling book The 33 Strategies of War

"It's better to Aim, Fire, Ready than to Ready, Aim, Fire!" - David DeAngelo, owner of the Million Dollar Empire Double Your Dating

Many men had experienced this before - they see a gorgeous woman they'd like to meet, but then they don't have what it takes to approach that woman, even if the opportunity is perfect; or even if they do have the guts to approach the woman, they spend a lot of time thinking about what to say to her that it paralyzes them to...

"It doesn't matter how slow you go, as long as you never stop" - Confucius

"Respect the Process" - Robert Greene, from the book 50th Law

“Focus on the journey, not the destination. Joy is found not in finishing an activity but in doing it." - Greg Anderson

A lot of people mistake the delivery of the pick-up line as the whole approach itself. They think if they deliver the magic pick-up line or magic opener, then "Boom! She's done!" The result is, they spend a lot of time just thinking about the opener, what to say, and also how to say it... and it is exactly this type of thinking that leads exactly to "analysis paralysis."

The better mindset to have is that, the approach is a process. It does not just consist of the opener. There are a lot of factors in the process of approaching, and even if you fail in one...